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2.1 Islamic Modesty – It’s More Than Just Clothing
When people hear the word modesty, they think of hijab for women. But modesty in Islam is much more than just how we dress.
Modesty includes:
The way we dress
The way we speak
The way we act
The way we present ourselves online
Allah commands both men and women to be modest:
“Tell the believing men to lower their gaze and guard their chastity... And tell the believing women to lower their gaze and guard their chastity...” (Qur'an 24:30-31)
This means that modesty is not just for women—men must also lower their gaze, dress appropriately, and behave with dignity.
2.2 Dressing Modestly – A Sign of Respect
The world promotes revealing clothes and “fashion trends” that often go against Islamic values. But Islam teaches us that true beauty is in modesty and self-respect.
The Prophet ﷺ said:
“Modesty is a branch of faith.” (Bukhari, Muslim)
Modest clothing is not about oppression—it’s about self-respect and obedience to Allah.
For Women: Wearing hijab and dressing modestly is an act of strength, dignity, and obedience to Allah.
For Men: Dressing modestly, avoiding tight or flashy clothing, and lowering your gaze are also forms of modesty.
Reminder:
Modesty is not about pleasing people—it’s about pleasing Allah.
2.3 Modesty in Speech & Behavior
Modesty is not just about clothes—it’s also about how you talk and behave.
Speaking loudly, rudely, or inappropriately is against Islamic modesty.
Using bad language, gossiping, or making inappropriate jokes is harmful.
The Prophet ﷺ said:
“Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should speak good or remain silent.” (Bukhari)
Practical Steps:
Speak with kindness and respect.
Avoid flirting, swearing, or gossiping.
Lower your gaze and don’t stare at inappropriate things.
2.4 Modesty Online – Protecting Yourself in the Digital World
Modesty also applies to social media.
❌ Avoid posting unnecessary selfies or personal photos for validation.
❌ Be mindful of what you share—don’t expose your private life online.
✅ Use social media to inspire, educate, and spread positivity.
The Prophet ﷺ said:
“Shyness and modesty bring nothing but goodness.” (Bukhari, Muslim)
In the digital world, modesty is even more important. Protect your privacy, dignity, and self-respect by being careful about what you post and share.
